So, darlings, I have an etiquette question for you. If you're a new reader, I rent space ahem, live in sin with my boyfriend. Everyone knows. It's not a secret. Now, my question I pose to you is, "Do I send Christmas cards to family signed by me or the both of us?". I don't want to offend any of our family. Our friends don't mind. Heck, they send one invite and one thank you note to us with both our names on it. So, I'm just a little worried about offending the old ones. So, one name or two?