Monday, March 30, 2009

LURKERS....

You know what sometimes lurking is inevitable. When your lurking hurts someone, then, it's time to STOP. Obviously, there is no picture on this blog. Obviously, I mention NO ONE'S name on here. I use quirky abbreviations. Only 3 of my closest friends and 1 of my good friends know about my blog. That is until evidently this weekend. If you are close to me and you stumbled upon here, you would probably figure it out. Remember, I mention the word CLOSE! If you were my close friend and stumbled upon this, would you not think to yourself, "Geez, Belle never mentioned she had a blog before, and she uses abbreviations for names. Hmmm, she must be trying to be anonymous!!!" Don't you think that you would actually ask me if it was my blog before you started telling people. Well, said person decided to tell another person, and it was brought to my attention. That is not okay. That really hurt. There are some things I say about LC on here. I started this blog b/c I wanted an outlet. I don't want to go private. I've met some really great ladies out there. This really hurt my feelings, not to mention the fact, that said person talked about it to or in front of someone that LC sees on a daily/weekly basis at court. LC doesn't even know about my blog. I am very hurt. I am very hurt by someone that is a dear friend of mine. Someone who has completely betrayed my trust. It's obvious my blog is anonymous, and if you figured it out, obviously, I never told you and wasn't intending to tell you. Just because I didn't tell you doesn't give you the right to tell others. NOT COOL WHATSOEVER! If you read this since you decided to lurk again, you really hurt my feelings. Think before you speak sometimes. I would have NEVER done this to you!

16 comments:

Natalie said...

Sorry someone busted you out like that. People sometimes act w/o thinking.
Hope your day gets better!

Lil' Woman said...

Ugh that sucks..I hope they get the message and keep quiet about things that don't involve them.

Prissy Southern Prep said...

I am about to become a follower of your blog, because I love it! You post about the funnest things. =) Just take a deep breath and forget about the so called "friend" that decides to share your private info with people.

Jennifer said...

Oh Belle, I'm sorry that happened to you. Blogging is a good outlet to talk about things in a neutral forum. If you don't want people to know, that's your decision and people should respect your privacy.

With Love from New Orleans said...

I am so sorry this happened to you!!
I am glad you got this off you chest and posted about it. This person is obviously oblivious to their actions.
We are here for you!
XO

Miss Lemonade said...

Oh, I'm sorry, I would be just as upset if someone spilled the beans about my blog too!

I'm sorry and I hope your day gets better! :)

"Adair Flair" said...

i hate someone did this to ya...the south loves to gossip don't we haha ..sometimes it can be very painful.
I am from MS and went to Ole Miss- did you happen to go there as well???

Heather said...

:( I am sorry someone hurt you! Want me to kick them in their shin? Hope you feel better!

Blondie said...

I am sorry that someone hurt you. People don't think before they say things. Stupid people. I hope you start having a better day.

JudgeyGirl said...

Stupid people are what ruin all the good things for the rest of us. I'm sorry you were hurt, darlin!

LiLu said...

I'm so sorry, babe... what a complete and utter invasion of privacy!

LAME!

a H.I.T. said...

What a hard situation to be in. I'm sorry.

Petunia said...

Some people just don't get it. Sorry that happened to you!

The Pink Chick said...

I am so sorry this happened to you! Your friend should have respected your privacy!

Preppy Pink Crocodile said...

I've had a close friend mention not once but twice now abput my blog on FB! She of course didn't mean anything by it but its harder to keep a secret when its on my FB wall! Then there was the old man who called me out IN PUBLIC at a wedding full of people I didn't want to know. It was a year ago and I am still mortified! I feel your pain. Its hard to walk that fine line between keeping things on the DL and private. Good luck!!

MarvelousMOM said...

I'm so sorry. I have had people in my life that I don't want to read my blog find it. They have literally googled all of my families names to get there. It is not a very good feeling at all though.

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