hmmm, what gives....

So, LC came over last night. I could tell something was bothering him, and I could see the gears grinding in his head. Eventually, it all came out with the question, "Where do you see our future?". Hmmmmm, let's see. I'm head over heels in love with you, and for the first time in my life, I've glanced at wedding websites, dresses, wedding blogs, imagined our future, what our kids will look like, that we'll grow old together, and you are worried about fun and excitement. When I feel like this and these convos happen, I get scared, and it gets in the back of my head. He feels that our relationship isn't as "exciting" or "fun" as it used to be. He said we used to have sooooo much fun. Sure, it was fun getting to know each other. A new relationship is VERY exciting. You're just getting to know one another and each's dislikes and likes. Like a new toy, a new dress, new shoes, the "new" eventually rubs off. Hopefully, after the "new" is over, there is enough not just physically but emotionally as well to stay together. I feel we've accomplished that. He feels I'm not as attracted to him as I was when we first started dating; because, he thinks about me ALL day. Well, you know what I think about him ALL the time as well. What gives? He says I'm the most loving and caring person he's ever known, and he loves me very much. Much more than I'll ever know. I DO NOT UNDERSTAND MEN AT ALL. Then what gives....